6 Soft Practical Tools That Have Expanded My Success As A Projector

HUman Design, unearthing projectorhood

 
 
โ€œDetach like itโ€™s done, smile like itโ€™s happened,
because thatโ€™s the frequency that the Universe canโ€™t resist.โ€
— matt cooke

Feminine receptivity work as a Projector

As a Projector, our aura is penetrative, making us incredibly receptive beings as we constantly absorb and process information from the external world and the people our aura interacts with. This sets us apart from other energy types, making us incredibly powerful in our natural ability to see into others and our unique gift of guidance.

Our strategy in Human Design is to wait for the invitation; it governs how we are mechanically designed to interact with the world, so our gifts, guidance, skill sets, and wisdom are valued, correctly received, and deeply impactful by those who are ready for them.

As a Projector mentor, I often use the analogy of a shield to represent our Strategy in Human Design when working with my Projector clients. Our strategy isnโ€™t there to restrict us, but to protect and prime us for the optimal use of our unique energetic configuration. So, we can leverage the natural feminine energetics of our aura, thereby retaining our receptivity for the correct resources, nervous systems, individuals, relationships, and recognition to settle in.

Feminine receptivity is the secret ingredient for empowerment as a Projector (regardless of your gender orientation). It facilitates how our aura interacts with the world, especially during our Active Waiting, and calling in our version of Projector Success. It is what defines your process and perception of Active Waiting.

However, tapping into feminine receptivity is likely not something most of us were taught at a very young age, nor was it something we have been conditioned to. Instead, especially as Projectors, we were conditioned the opposite: engaged, in the constant go-go-go overdrive, to sustain, to accomplish, to push, and to do.

I know that for me, unplugging and deconditioning from the hustle culture and cultivating my feminine receptivity has been the most life-changing and pivotal inner work in my personal deconditioning and Projectorhood journey.

It has taught me to approach life with more intentionality, spaciousness, and abundance, shifting out of survival and resistance, and, most importantly, regulating my nervous system for receivership so that I can be deeply seen and aligned with my Projector divinity on a cellular level.

It has taught me to reclaim my power as a Projector, to be.

I teach about feminine receptivity work in my 1:1 Shui Projector mentorship, The Projector Remembrance (TPR) and 1:1 Projector Soft Business mentorship.

Explore my free receivership guide: When Receivership Heals.


My Success codes

In Human Design, our Signature as Projectors is Success. 

It happens when we are living in the highest alignment of our unique Projector divinity. It is experienced when our aura can function without resistance, and we can be deeply seen and received for who we are. 

Before my discovery of Human Design, I never questioned the notion of success or pondered deeply what that might look like in my life. The concept of success that was taught in my culture and society was linear: go to university, get a paycheck, get a pay raise, get a partner, get a house/apartment, invest, get married by 30, get another pay raise, have two kids by 35, work for the rest of your life. Work to live.

You get the gist.

Many of us spend our entire lives not consciously connected to what success as a Projector means to us and perhaps adopting other peopleโ€™s visions, goals, expectations, and perceptions of success as our own, downplaying our Projector divinity and who our soul came here to be.

My current Success Codes as a Projector are Spaciousness, Impact, Expansion, Freedom, and Adventure.

They have served as signposts to cross-correct whenever I feel inadequate or doubtful in my Projectorhood journey; they anchor me when I need to be reminded of what I am calling in. They are the pillars that govern my everyday decisions.

Explore the Projector Success Code Workshop here.
Projector Success Codes is also the cornerstone of what I teach, which has supported all my Projector students in their day-to-day lives through The Projector Remembrance (TPR).

โ€œThe secret to genius is not genetics
but daily practice married with relentless perseverance.โ€
— robin sharma



Daily spiritual practice

Every morning, I emphasize starting my day slowly and unhurriedly.

As someone who prioritizes brain health and neuroplasticity, the time during the waking hours of my morning is the most important. It usually begins with a guided meditation, morning mantras (including a protection one), and automatic gratitude journaling. I would normally make a nourishing herbal tea, breakfast and spend at least 5-10 minutes sitting outdoors on my balcony or patio, reading my Kindle. During this time, I will also read my Projector success codes and a journal, which I refer to as my inspiration book. This practice takes at least an hour, during which I refrain from using my phone. I will then intentionally slow down during my skin and body care routine before starting the rest of my day. During this time, I work closely with 432Hz and/or only listen to high vibrational songs (explore my Projector Slay Spotify playlist here).

It is a simple ritual, but it grounds the energy for my entire day with presence, slowness, intentionality, and certainty. I am a big believer that our spiritual practices are simple ways to deepen our connection with ourselves, wire ourselves for magnetism, and sprinkle little ways to romanticize our lives, priming ourselves for abundance for the rest of the day.


As an active brain Projector, regardless of my location or if I am traveling or rushing for an early client call, I will get up an hour earlier just to prioritize my spiritual practice. It has become one of my non-negotiables as a Projector.

If you are an active brain Projector as well, I urge you to consider developing a spiritual practice for yourself. If you are a passive brain Projector, you most definitely can have a spiritual practice too, but how you show up for it may look different from a day-to-day basis. I write about this more in this article, โ€œ6 Conscious Tips For Unwinding Down As A Projectorโ€.

Do you have a spiritual practice?
What does it look like?
How does it make you feel after you have completed it?



Aligning with my Jupiter and Part of Fortune sign

Anyone who knows me in my personal life will know that before Human Design, Astrology was my first love. For the longest time, I have worked extensively with my natal chart and consulted several astrologers and astrocartographers. Astrology has been a powerful self-discovery and forecasting tool for me since my spiritual awakening back in 2018. I like to describe oneโ€™s natal chart as their cosmic blueprint, while a Human Design chart is their energetic blueprint.

Here are some of my personal reflections on Astrology that have shaped me in the past years.

Here are my popular articles about:

Understanding Your Chiron Sign
Understanding Your Nodal Nodes

In recent years, I have worked particularly closely with my Jupiter and Part of Fortune placements.

Jupiter is the planet of expansion, blessings, abundance, and inner strength. It is the planet to look at whenever you feel like you need a push in life, or clues in navigating life; a way to come back to yourself, a dose of self-belief and internal self-confidence, It also acts as a magnet for abundance, an energy of purpose, sacred duty, dharma or a moral code you can fall back on when in doubt.

The Part of Fortune is an imaginary point, not a planet or other celestial body, found in your natal chart. It is the sweet spot between your Sun, Moon, and Ascendant. It signifies an area of your life that is the easiest path to finding abundance, success, and happiness.

It is important to always consider the other aspects of other planets, too, when you work with these two placements.

My Jupiter is conjunct with my IC (4th house, emotional foundation, what makes you feel safe, nourished, and at home) in Virgo in the 4th house. This has been very helpful for me in embodying more Virgo energies, especially during this year, when I relocate often. What has immensely supported me was my daily spiritual practice, tending to my nervous system, expanding by being of service to others (the work I do here with Arawme), and simplifying and creating a home sanctuary.

My POF is in the 12th house in Gemini and is conjunct to Mars. What supports me is surrendering to control, trusting in divine timing, and loving my solitude and time in nature.

I am natural at being a teacher of liminal or meditative space, and am here to channel wisdom and express my truth boldly through my words, the unseen, and the ineffable. My insights and wisdom are powerful, especially when they are reflected from solitude and my inner worldโ€”all of these mirror what I know about myself in my Human Design chart.

Feel free to explore these two placements of yours, but as always, I would always recommend working directly with a certified astrologer, as AI is not able to decipher or explore a natal chart the same way an attuned astrologer will.


Use of subliminal

One of the latest additions of tools that has supported me in expanding my Success is the use of subliminals.

In layman's terms, subliminals are messages that are targeted to reprogram your subconscious mind. They often contain subtle, often hidden cues that the conscious mind cannot comprehend. In my experiment, I use subliminals in audio tracks where affirmations are woven into them and are often accompanied by solfeggio frequencies or audio tracks. I found subliminals particularly useful when I am working, studying, after I wake up, or before I sleep. Sometimes, I even listen to subliminals throughout the night too.

It is important to note that shifts can happen, and sometimes they happen quickly, and sometimes they take time. When using subliminals, it is essential to set your intention and trust the process. The use of subliminals does not relinquish or replace aligned actions that are required for what you are calling in; they solidify them. Be discerning about what subliminals you are listening to, and do not use subliminals from creators that you do not trust. Know that subliminals for beauty and health do not work the same if you are calling in opportunities or wealth.

Explore my Spotify playlist for a few of my favourite subliminals that I use daily!


Rather than relying on conscious listening to audio content, subliminals are embedded with inaudible positive affirmations using sound rates above our hearing capacities.

We canโ€™t hear these affirmations, but our inner ear can detect them and send the messages to our subconscious mind, affecting our thoughts and actions if we consciously also want to change for the better.

-Mandy C, How To Listen To Subliminals Correctly



A Daily receiving practice

As a Projector, the signature of success doesnโ€™t have to be loud, forceful, or hustle-driven. Itโ€™s about weaving softness with practical structures that nurture your energy and allow you to be seen, recognized, and supported.

In my recent article, โ€œWhat Learning to Receive Has Taught Me: Healing Receivership Woundsโ€ I share about how receivership wounds show up in our lives as a Projector and the intersection of it with our strategy of Waiting For the Invitation. Learning how to receive has been one of the most healing and transformative lessons of my journey, especially as a Projector and a soul-led business owner.

One way to deepen our relationship with receivership is the use of a receivership embodiment mantra.

Every morning, carve out 5 minutes on top of your existing spiritual practice. Sit crossed-legged or lie on your back in a relaxed position. Visualize all the opportunities, invitations, and recognitions flowing in your life. With a hand on your heart, repeat the mantra:

It is safe to receive. I deserve to receive.

When you do it, make sure you elongate your exhales more than your inhales. It may sound simple, but this somatic practice goes a long way.



To learn more about the pathway back to healing, explore โ€œWhen Receivership Healsโ€ โ€” a free 20+ page guide + enjoy an embodied practice for healing receivership with money at the end of the guide! I share more about the receivership healing framework and many more feminine activation practices in The Projector Remembrance (TPR).

We are open for enrolment this fall!

If you are new to Human Design, you can check up on your Human Design here.

It is a powerful tool for self-discovery and is also widely known as the science of the aura. Each human being on earth has a unique design, and I like to refer to it as oneโ€™s divinity.


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