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The question of “Can I afford this?” sheds light on where you currently are with your inner landscape.
There are two kinds of “I can’t afford this.”
The first is “I can’t afford this” because it would truly and authentically be irresponsible of me to make this investment, because it feels reckless and impulsive. An example would be choosing to take a private jet because you have that money to, but lack the fortitude and nervous system bandwidth to hold this money and receive more money. It looks like, I cannot afford that and it would be irresponsible of me to make that investment in my life, at this time.
The second kind of “I can’t afford this” is an excuse.
It happens when your subconscious locks you with a falsehood/limiting belief of a money wound that you have developed or borrowed from others since you were young. It may look like living with a scarcity mindset, never feeling like you have enough, or that you deeply believe you are not worthy of investing in yourself.
What would happen if you challenged this story? What would happen if you got curious about how you can become the person who CAN afford this? What does it cost you to stay where you are? Can you be open to the possibility that this investment may single-handedly be the best investment you can make for yourself? How much are you resistant to change? Can you shift from 'I can't afford this' to 'Why not me?'
My experience has shown me that if you currently have a job with the basic privileges in life, there are probably ways for you to make it work, if only you choose to be greater than your current beliefs and excuses. If only you choose to trust yourself to be the person who can generate abundance. (Which is the work we will be doing together).
One of my favorite quotes is…
“If you care enough, you will find a way to make it happen.
If you don’t, you will find an excuse.”
YOU are in full Self- agency to discern with your authority whether making this investment in yourself is a responsible investment.
If you’re committed to making this happen, then I’m here to help.
If you’re not there yet, that’s okay. I’ve been there too. It took many years of surrendering to fear to finally reach a point where I could say, 'This is enough.'
Keep taking bold, radical action. Keep questioning your limits. Please explore my free content and lower-ticket offerings until you're ready to take that leap towards yourself.
There is no better time to begin than today.
As always trust what your authority shows up for you.
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